Most men think they score so high with their women when they do the big things for her, like buying her a car, taking her on a holiday etc.They assume they score less when they do the small things, like opening the door for her, buying her flowers or giving her a hug.

He may not understand that to a woman, the little things are just as important as the big things. This is because women need several expressions of love in a relationship to feel loved.

Some other men already know about these things but dont bother to do them because they dont realize how important the little things are to their women.